fix atomicSetID wrapper access

[jmsexton03]

Summary

• added dereference needed for using ParticleIDWrapper object
• added assertions to a test for checking

Additional background

• Originally seen as the following error while debugging Artemis CI:

error: invalid conversion from ‘long unsigned int*’ to ‘uint64_t’ {aka ‘long unsigned int’} [-fpermissive]
  436 |         this->m_idcpu = wrapper.m_idata;
      |                         ~~~~~~~~^~~~~~~
      |                                 |
      |                                 long unsigned int*

Checklist

The proposed changes:

• fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
• add new capabilities to AMReX
• changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
• are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX users
• include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

[atmyers]

Thanks!