void Main()
{
	var conductor = new Conductor<TestItem>.Collection.AllActive();
	
	var t1 = new TestItem();
	var t2 = new TestItem();
	var t3 = new TestItem();
	conductor.Items.Add(t1);
	conductor.Items.Add(t2);
	conductor.Items.Add(t3);
	if (t1.Parent == null || t2.Parent == null || t3.Parent == null)
		throw new Exception("t1.Parent + t2.Parent + t3.Parent should have been set by conductor");
	conductor.Items[0] = null;
	if (t1.Parent != null)
		throw new Exception("t1.Parent should have been set to <null> by conductor");
	conductor.Items.Remove(t2);
	if (t2.Parent != null) 
		throw new Exception("t2.Parent should have been set to <null> by conductor");
	conductor.Items.Clear();
	if (t3.Parent != null)
		throw new Exception("t3.Parent should have been set to <null> by conductor");
}

public class Workaround<T>
	where T : class
{
	private void ConductorItems_CollectionChanged(object sender, NotifyCollectionChangedEventArgs e)
	{
		switch (e.Action)
		{
			case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Add:
				this._mirroredItems.AddRange(e.NewItems.OfType<T>());
				break;
			case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Remove:
				e.OldItems.OfType<T>().Apply(i => this._mirroredItems.Remove(item: i));
				break;
			case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Replace:
				this._mirroredItems.AddRange(e.NewItems.OfType<T>());
				e.OldItems.OfType<T>().Apply(i => this._mirroredItems.Remove(item: i));
				break;
			case NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Reset:
				if (this._conductorItems.Count == 0) // clear called
				{
					this._mirroredItems.OfType<IChild>().Apply(i => i.Parent = null);
					this._mirroredItems.Clear();
					return;
				}

				// re-synchronize mirrored items
				this._mirroredItems.Where(i => !this._conductorItems.Contains(item: i)).OfType<IChild>().Apply(i => i.Parent = null);
				this._mirroredItems.Clear();
				this._mirroredItems.AddRange(collection: this._conductorItems);
				break;
		}
	}
	public Workaround(IObservableCollection<T> conductorItems)
	{
		if (conductorItems == null) throw new ArgumentNullException(nameof(conductorItems));
		this._conductorItems = conductorItems;
		this._mirroredItems = new List<T>(collection: conductorItems);
		conductorItems.CollectionChanged += this.ConductorItems_CollectionChanged;
	}
}

new Workaround<TestItem>(conductor.Items);