[FEA] move to rapids-logger

[abellina]

According to rapidsai/rapids-cmake#918, rapids-logger should now be replacing the direct use of spdlog and fmt, and that's why they were removed from rapids-cmake.

This PR #3805 pulls spdlog and fmt directly to unblock spark-rapids-jni, we should consider undoing it and migrating to rapids-logger, if we can.

[vyasr]

You should feel free to do either. The primary benefits of rapids-logger over direct spdlog usage in the context of RAPIDS (symbol visibility concerns, avoiding direct spdlog/fmt package dependencies, ABI stability) don't really matter for spark-rapids-jni, so the main benefit to you would be simplifying your build system since you wouldn't have to manage pulling spdlog yourself.