chore: update to latest aspect_bazel_lib and remove packaging hack for root terraform files (#2181)

- Chore (any other change that doesn't affect source or test files, such
as configuration)

- Manual testing; please provide instructions so we can reproduce:

Checked the built archives manually and verified that to root `.tf`
files are still included.

GitOrigin-RevId: e98d18d9a285a55486c6ae90c6e6123ef833dce2

Author: gregmagolan

docs/bazelrc/ci.bazelrc

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@
 # or split up into multiple test targets with sharding or manually.
 # Set this flag to exclude targets that have their timeout set to eternal (>15m) from running on CI.
 # Docs: https://bazel.build/docs/user-manual#test-timeout-filters
-build --test_timeout_filters=-eternal
+test --test_timeout_filters=-eternal
 
 # Set this flag to enable re-tries of failed tests on CI.
 # When any test target fails, try one or more times. This applies regardless of whether the "flaky"
@@ -16,7 +16,7 @@ build --test_timeout_filters=-eternal
 # is more likely to get fixed.
 # Note that when passing after the first attempt, Bazel will give a special "FLAKY" status.
 # Docs: https://bazel.build/docs/user-manual#flaky-test-attempts
-build --flaky_test_attempts=2
+test --flaky_test_attempts=2
 
 # Announce all announces command options read from the bazelrc file(s) when starting up at the
 # beginning of each Bazel invocation. This is very useful on CI to be able to inspect what Bazel rc