refactor: improve how esm is handled in bob #974

Job	Run time
build (macos, turbo-module, cpp)	9s
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	15s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-objc)	9s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	12s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	11s
build (ubuntu, library, js)	10s
build (macos, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	11s
build (ubuntu, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	12s
build (ubuntu, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	15s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-swift)	10s
build (ubuntu, legacy-module, cpp)	10s
build (ubuntu, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	11s
build (macos, legacy-module, kotlin-objc)	14s
build (macos, legacy-view, kotlin-swift)	10s
build (macos, fabric-view, kotlin-objc)	9s
build (macos, nitro-module, kotlin-swift)	10s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, cpp)	17s
build (ubuntu, turbo-module, kotlin-objc)	11s
build (macos, legacy-module, cpp)	13s
	3m 39s

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