Processor extremely slow - Can't migrate from `eslint-plugin-graphql`

[ItaiYosephi]

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Describe the bug
In our frontend app, which is quite big, we use both .gql files and gql``` in .ts/.tsx` to define operations.

While trying to migrate from eslint-plugin-graphql, we added the following to our eslint.config.js, trying to have the same rules we have using eslint-plugin-graphql:

      {
        files: ['**/*.{ts,tsx}'],
        processor: graphqlPlugin.processor,
      },
      {
        files: ['**/*.{gql,graphql}'],
        languageOptions: {
          parser: graphqlPlugin.parser,
        },
        plugins: {
          '@graphql-eslint': graphqlPlugin,
        },
        rules: {
          '@graphql-eslint/executable-definitions': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/fields-on-correct-type': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/fragments-on-composite-type': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/known-directives': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/known-type-names': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/lone-anonymous-operation': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/no-fragment-cycles': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/no-undefined-variables': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/no-unused-variables': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/overlapping-fields-can-be-merged': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/possible-fragment-spread': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/provided-required-arguments': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/scalar-leafs': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/one-field-subscriptions': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/unique-argument-names': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/unique-directive-names-per-location': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/unique-input-field-names': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/unique-operation-name': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/unique-variable-names': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/value-literals-of-correct-type': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/variables-are-input-types': 'error',
          '@graphql-eslint/variables-in-allowed-position': 'error',
        },
      },

When running eslint, I waited for over an hour and it never ended, but after removing:

      {
        files: ['**/*.{ts,tsx}'],
        processor: graphqlPlugin.processor,
      },

it took 12 minutes...

I think this is related: #1858 .