[CI] update clang-tidy config

[dbarker]

CI is failing due to clang-tidy warning limits

Changes

• update clang tidy checks after llvm-22 upgrade
• set new warning limits.

For significant contributions please make sure you have completed the following items:

• CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests have been added
• Changes in public API reviewed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 82.10%. Comparing base (767f797) to head (62e50a7).

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #4066      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage   82.09%   82.10%   +0.02%     
==========================================
  Files         385      385              
  Lines       15989    15989              
==========================================
+ Hits        13124    13126       +2     
+ Misses       2865     2863       -2     

see 1 file with indirect coverage changes

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