Merge pull request #27522 from chacha21:fix_cuda129_msvc

Fix compilation problems with MSVC+Cuda 12.9 #27522

fix for #27521

Actually, when ENABLE_CUDA_FIRST_CLASS_LANGUAGE is enabled, the fix it not necessary. However, even when ENABLE_CUDA_FIRST_CLASS_LANGUAGE is enabled, I have checked that the fix is harmless So I propose to keep it simple for now and enable the fix whatever the state of ENABLE_CUDA_FIRST_CLASS_LANGUAGE

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Author: chacha21

cmake/OpenCVDetectCUDAUtils.cmake

@@ -388,8 +388,13 @@ macro(ocv_nvcc_flags)
     set(CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS ${CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS} -Xcompiler=-fno-finite-math-only)
   endif()
 
-  if(WIN32 AND NOT (CUDA_VERSION VERSION_LESS "11.2"))
-    set(CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS ${CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS} -Xcudafe --display_error_number --diag-suppress 1394,1388)
+  if(WIN32)
+    if (NOT (CUDA_VERSION VERSION_LESS "11.2"))
+        set(CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS ${CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS} -Xcudafe --display_error_number --diag-suppress 1394,1388)
+    endif()
+    if(CUDA_VERSION GREATER "12.8")
+        set(CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS ${CUDA_NVCC_FLAGS} -Xcompiler=/Zc:preprocessor)
+    endif()
   endif()
 
   if(CMAKE_CROSSCOMPILING AND (ARM OR AARCH64))