add tbb as library dep explicitly in cmake (#4859) #18698

Job	Run time
build-macos (macos-13, shared)	21m 4s
build-macos (macos-13, static)	13m 26s
build-bazel (x86, linux.12xlarge, gcc)	10m 8s
build-bazel (x86, linux.12xlarge, clang)	9m 24s
build-windows (windows-2022, static)	12m 27s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, clang, 16.0.6)	19m 56s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, gcc, 14.1.0)	26m 33s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, shared, clang, 16.0.6)	29m 34s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, static, clang, 16.0.6)	29m 29s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, gcc, 9.5.0)	25m 48s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, gcc, 14.1.0)	26m 23s
build-windows (windows-2022, shared)	13m 33s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, clang, 16.0.6)	20m 6s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, static, gcc, 14.1.0)	29m 23s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, gcc, 9.5.0)	26m 0s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, shared, gcc, 14.1.0)	29m 1s
	5h 42m 15s

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