Split grouped gemm metadata kernel into grouped_common.cuh #18859

Job	Run time
build-macos (macos-13, shared)	25m 16s
build-macos (macos-13, static)	18m 50s
build-windows (windows-2022, shared)	12m 25s
build-windows (windows-2022, static)	12m 31s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, gcc, 9.5.0)	25m 50s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, gcc, 9.5.0)	26m 8s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, clang, 16.0.6)	19m 52s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, shared, gcc, 14.1.0)	26m 37s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, shared, clang, 16.0.6)	32m 50s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, shared, gcc, 14.1.0)	1h 22m 43s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, static, gcc, 14.1.0)	1h 26m 25s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, gcc, 14.1.0)	26m 19s
build-linux (arm, linux.arm64.m7g.4xlarge, static, clang, 16.0.6)	32m 56s
build-bazel (x86, linux.12xlarge, clang)	9m 24s
build-linux (x86, linux.12xlarge, static, clang, 16.0.6)	20m 20s
build-bazel (x86, linux.12xlarge, gcc)	10m 1s
	7h 48m 27s

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