feat: Add tracing to load, server actions, and handle/resolve

[elliott-with-the-longest-name-on-github]

Adds spans to load (client and server), server actions, and handle/resolve.

TODO:

• Configuration to enable globally enabling or disabling telemetry
• Tests
• Ask for comments from community -- esp. around what data we're capturing in our attributes and how it's structured

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• feat: Add tracing to load, server actions, and handle/resolve #13900 👈 (View in Graphite)
• feat: Initial tracing setup (peer deps + utils) #13899
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moved to shared to reduce duplication

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TODO