chore: Update pyproject and tests to support Mac's/arm local development

[terry-docker]

I want to help contribute to testcontainers-python but issues getting the local environment running. Starting off with fixing the install + test suite so myself and other people on Mac can get up and running faster.

Manual testing done:
This branch was tested on a few different Mac machines the and a Linux VM (still on arm). make install and make tests checked in all envs, I also checked docs, build, and cleans on the Linux VM and a M2 mac.

Notes:

• Poetry markers aren't bullet proof, but works for ibm so it's good enough for now, else we'd need a more complex install and test build scripts (for dind tests) which I played around with but ended up removing to keep the PR smaller and less complex.
• Skipping arm + mac specific tests in the test suite, these are testing either features that Macs don't have or the community module doesn't actually support macs. For the sake of contributors this shouldn't matter, the CI will still be testing everything fully.
• Mac skip reasons given: I'm not deeply familiar with these community packages or the menewsha of mac docker vs other OS dockers. There might be better explanations for why it needed to be skipped.

Ticket:
#813

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[alexanderankin]

backup before rebase is here https://github.com/testcontainers/testcontainers-python/commits/support-arm-local-development-backup/