feat(instrumentation-grpc): monitor error events with events.errorMonitor (open-telemetry#5369)

Co-authored-by: Marc Pichler <marc.pichler@dynatrace.com>

Author: cjihrig

experimental/CHANGELOG.md

@@ -23,6 +23,7 @@ All notable changes to experimental packages in this project will be documented
 
 ### :bug: (Bug Fix)
 
+* fix(instrumentation-grpc): monitor error events with events.errorMonitor [#5369](https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-js/pull/5369) @cjihrig
 * fix(exporter-metrics-otlp-http): browser OTLPMetricExporter was not passing config to OTLPMetricExporterBase super class [#5331](https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-js/pull/5331) @trentm
 
 ### :books: (Refine Doc)

experimental/packages/opentelemetry-instrumentation-grpc/src/serverUtils.ts

@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@
  * error event should be processed.
  */
 
+import { errorMonitor } from 'node:events';
+
 import type {
   ClientReadableStream,
   handleBidiStreamingCall,
@@ -86,7 +88,7 @@ function serverStreamAndBidiHandler<RequestType, ResponseType>(
     endSpan();
   });
 
-  call.on('error', (err: ServiceError) => {
+  call.on(errorMonitor, (err: ServiceError) => {
     if (call[CALL_SPAN_ENDED]) {
       return;
     }

experimental/packages/opentelemetry-instrumentation-grpc/test/helper.ts

@@ -395,6 +395,7 @@ export const runTests = (
           bidiStream.write(element);
         });
 
+        assert.strictEqual(bidiStream.listenerCount('error'), 0);
         bidiStream.on('error', (err: ServiceError) => {
           reject(err);
         });